Tips for First-Time Sex
Advice for the first time you have sex

In the movies sex always looks great. But if you're like a lot of men sex may not be as good as you think it could be. You might feel anxiety concerns about your performance or even self-consciousness about your body. No matter what the scenario it just feels like you're not having sex as often as everyone else.

Let your spouse know you care and are thinking about him/her throughout the day by notes e-mails texts phone calls hugs etc.

Don't expect your spouse to be the only one in your marriage who is responsible for romance. You both need to take responsibility for having an intimate and successful marriage.

Hold hands and show affection more often. Women particularly need to feel loved and connected in order to have the desire for sex.
Make time for date nights and other novel activities together
Be open to trying new things!

A Few Extra Tips​​
Being grouchy or ignoring your spouse all during the day hurts your chances of having a positive lovemaking experience that evening.

Remember that sex is not going to be perfect each time. Do not compare your sex life to the ones you see in movies or on television.